ADHD in Women

ADHD in Women: Everything You Need to Know

ADHD in women often presents differently than in men, leading to underdiagnosis and unique challenges. Women with ADHD typically exhibit inattentive symptoms, such as difficulty focusing and time management issues, rather than hyperactivity. This can lead to low self-esteem, mood swings, and struggles in daily life. Proper diagnosis and tailored treatment options are crucial for managing ADHD symptoms effectively.

Published on
27/10/2022
Updated on
28/5/2024
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Tayler Hackett

TMAC Editorial Manager & Trainee Psychotherapist

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Understanding ADHD in Women: 7 Things You Need to Know


Did you know that a lot of women only discover they have ADHD later in life? ADHD often shows up differently in women compared to men, which can make it trickier to recognize and manage. 😬

Today, we're going to explore:

  • Why ADHD is often diagnosed later in women and young girls. 
  • Why women and girls with ADHD tend to have comorbid conditions.
  • How pregnancy can affect ADHD symptoms.
  • The challenges of balancing motherhood with ADHD.
  • The impact of the menstrual cycle on ADHD symptoms.
  • The connection between ADHD and PMDD (Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder).
  • How menopause can influence ADHD symptoms.


Ready for a deep dive into how ADHD impacts women differently? Here’s what you need to know. 👇

1. Females With ADHD Are Diagnosed Later Than Males

Have you ever wondered why so many women only find out they have ADHD later in life? Unlike men, who are often diagnosed in childhood, women tend to get their ADHD diagnosis well into adulthood. This delay isn't just a simple oversight - it can significantly impact their lives, leading to years of missed opportunities and unnecessary trauma. 😞

Why does this happen? Well, it turns out that ADHD looks a bit different in women. Instead of the hyperactive behavior quickly noticed in boys, women often show quieter and more internal symptoms - like being easily distracted, having trouble following through on tasks, or feeling overwhelmed by daily demands. These signs can easily be mistaken for just being stressed or emotional. 🙄

Research shows that girls are typically diagnosed with ADHD later than boys, partly because their symptoms often lean more toward ‘emotional issues’. They might visit the doctor several times before ADHD even becomes a possibility. During childhood, boys are more likely to be diagnosed due to noticeable behaviors like hyperactivity, but for girls, the symptoms don’t tend to be as obvious. In fact, a recent study revealed that women are diagnosed, on average, at 23.5 years old - four years later than men. 

As women grow older, these missed signs of ADHD don't just disappear; they manifest in ways that might look like anxiety or depression, especially during significant life changes such as motherhood. According to experts, this late diagnosis can lead to years of unnecessary struggle and emotional pain. Research also indicates that women are also more likely to mask their symptoms, which can further complicate the diagnosis process. This masking often involves consciously or unconsciously hiding their struggles to fit into societal norms and cultural expectations, leading to their symptoms being overlooked or misunderstood by both healthcare professionals and loved ones. 💔

So, what does this all mean? It highlights a crucial need for us to get better at spotting ADHD in girls and women early on. Understanding that ADHD can show up as more than just the stereotypical hyperactivity - recognizing it can also be about feeling restless, overwhelmed, or excessively worried - is key. 👍

For more insights on the importance of early diagnosis and understanding ADHD, check out our article, 'ADHD Late Diagnosis: Understanding Its Importance,' where we explore why timely diagnosis matters and how it can make a significant difference in managing the condition effectively. 

Illustration of a sad woman with pink hair. Text reads: 'Masking and compensating inattentive ADHD traits can be exhausting. Some people are even never diagnosed because they hide their struggle so well.'

2. Women with ADHD Are More Likely to Experience a Range of Comorbid Conditions

Women and girls often face extra challenges beyond the typical symptoms of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). Research shows they are significantly more likely to experience various comorbid conditions throughout their lives, making diagnosis and treatment more complex. The direction of this relationship is not always clear - it may be that living with undiagnosed ADHD can lead to an increased risk of mental health issues.

According to a recent expert consensus statement taking a lifespan approach to understanding ADHD in females, women and adolescent girls with ADHD are more prone to internalizing disorders like anxiety and depression compared to men. 

These conditions can hide ADHD symptoms, making them harder to spot and treat effectively. 🧐Additionally, eating disorders such as bulimia and anorexia are more common among females with ADHD. This overlap means treatment needs to address both ADHD and eating disorders together.

There's also an increased risk of substance abuse, as some women may turn to substances to cope with untreated ADHD symptoms and related stress. Challenges in sexual health, including higher rates of risky sexual behavior and difficulties with reproductive health management, are also more common among women diagnosed with ADHD.

Misdiagnosis is another significant issue, too. ADHD symptoms in women can overlap with other mental health disorders like bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder, leading to incorrect diagnoses. 

With this in mind, a holistic approach that considers all these overlapping conditions can significantly improve health and quality of life for women with ADHD, ensuring they have the most accurate diagnosis. 👌Understanding how their symptoms impact daily life and seeking comprehensive care can be life-changing. If you or someone you know is dealing with these issues, professional help can make a big difference.

For more insights on managing the various challenges associated with ADHD, check out our article, 'The Most Common Co-occurring Conditions with ADHD,' where we delve into practical strategies and helpful tips for dealing with these complex issues.

Illustration of a distressed person with anxiety, suicidal thoughts, and relationship problems. Text reads: 'Living with undiagnosed ADHD can have terrible consequences... Anxiety, suicidal thoughts, self-soothing with alcohol and drugs, relationship problems.'

3. Pregnancy Often Amplifies the Complexities of ADHD

Pregnancy can really turn up the volume on managing ADHD, and it's not just about dealing with 'baby brain.' 👶

Research has given us a closer look at how ADHD symptoms and treatments shift during this important time, shedding light on how medication use and outcomes around childbirth can be affected. 

One study tracked women with ADHD during their pregnancy, grouping them by changes in their medication use: those who discontinued, those who maintained their usual dosages, and those who adjusted their doses. The results showed significant variations in ADHD symptoms among these groups during pregnancy, with the women who stopped their medication experiencing poorer mood outcomes and more significant difficulties in family dynamics than those who continued or modified their medication. 

As ADHD symptoms can escalate so much during pregnancy, the usage of ADHD medications during this time has seen a noticeable increase over the years, which raises concerns about fetal exposure and the pressing need for comprehensive safety data to guide medication use during pregnancy. 💊

One study examined the outcomes for infants exposed to ADHD medications in utero; findings indicated an increased risk of neonatal morbidity, specifically disorders related to the central nervous system, though no significant rise in congenital malformations or perinatal death was observed. These results highlight the delicate balance required in the use of ADHD medications during pregnancy, weighing the benefits for maternal health against potential risks to the newborn.

Deciding whether to continue ADHD medications during pregnancy isn't easy. For some, managing ADHD without medication goes far beyond the daily challenges - it can affect your job, your finances, and even your safety. Without clear guidelines, these decisions become deeply personal, carefully balancing the risks and benefits for both you and your baby. 

It's all about finding the right balance to keep both of you safe and well. Navigating ADHD during this special time means teaming up with your healthcare providers and mental health professionals to tailor a treatment plan that meets your unique needs during this transformative phase of your life. 💕

If you're managing both pregnancy and ADHD and are looking for some helpful coping strategies, take a look at this informative blog post from Therapy Mama.

4. ADHD Can Complicate The Demands Of Motherhood

Motherhood is a journey filled with joys and challenges, and when you're navigating it with ADHD, things can get even more complex. For many women with ADHD, everyday tasks like managing schedules, keeping up with daily chores, and staying on top of the endless to-do list can feel overwhelming, to say the least. ADHD can make it tough to handle time management, control impulses, and stick to routines - skills that are crucial when you're a parent. 🙃

Illustration of a stressed parent with ADHD juggling multiple items including a baby bottle, onesie, ball, key, and bills. Text reads: 'Being a parent with ADHD often means juggling more than many neurotypical parents...'


According to research, women with ADHD are more likely to exhibit predominantly inattentive symptoms, such as difficulty maintaining focus, zoning out, or tending to talk excessively. These symptoms go beyond forgetting a soccer practice or missing a school meeting; it's about the ongoing challenge of managing the overwhelming demands of parenting while also coping with ADHD symptoms, all within the already demanding role of motherhood.

As a result, women with ADHD are more likely to experience lower self-esteem due to the daily challenges they face, which can further complicate their mental and emotional health; this is particularly significant because mental health struggles like anxiety or depression are more common in women with ADHD, and the pressures of motherhood can exacerbate these issues further.

Seeking help from mental health professionals is not just helpful; it's often essential. Therapists, counselors, or ADHD coaches can offer coping strategies and guidance tailored to the unique challenges faced by mothers with ADHD. Joining support groups where you can connect with other moms going through similar experiences can also be incredibly beneficial. 🥰

It's crucial to remember that each woman's experience with ADHD is unique, and therefore, the approach to managing symptoms must be personalized. Whether it's tweaking ADHD medications under a healthcare provider's supervision or learning new coping techniques from therapy sessions, the goal is to find a balance that works for you. 

Managing ADHD effectively as a mom isn't just about improving your quality of life; it's also about enriching your family's life, making those precious moments with your children more enjoyable and less stressful. 💕

By understanding and addressing the symptoms of ADHD, adult women can achieve a better balance in their roles as mothers, improving both their well-being and that of their families. This ongoing effort to manage ADHD symptoms not only supports their daily life but also enhances their social relationships and emotional stability at home.

For more practical advice on balancing parenting with ADHD, check out our article, ‘ADHD Parenting: Tips & Tricks For Parents With ADHD,’ where we share helpful strategies and insights.

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ADHD Symptoms Can Worsen During Certain Phases Of The Menstrual Cycle

Have you ever felt like your ADHD symptoms ramp up at certain times of the month? 😩No, it's not all in your head; recent studies have shone a light on how the reproductive cycle can stir things up if you're dealing with ADHD. 👇

Illustration of a woman looking worried next to a calendar with a marked date. Text reads: 'Oh no, not again.' and 'Period starting.'

During different phases of the cycle, especially right before your period, you might notice your ADHD symptoms getting significantly worse or feel as if your medication isn't working. For some, it goes beyond feeling a bit more distracted or restless - some women report their symptoms spike so much that it throws a wrench in their daily life. Why does this happen? Well, it's all about hormones. 👇

A recent study discovered that when estrogen levels dip, and progesterone levels rise, it can intensify ADHD symptoms. This effect is especially noticeable in women who naturally tend to act on impulse. So, if you've ever felt like your ADHD is on overdrive pre-period, it's not just you - it's a genuine hormonal tug-of-war affecting your brain's ADHD management systems. 🧠

The good news is that research suggests increasing medication during this phase can be beneficial. One study found encouraging results by adjusting ADHD medication doses during the premenstrual phase. Women in the study experienced better symptom management with this customized approach and reported no severe side effects with the temporary increase.

However, it's not just about the ADHD symptoms. Mood swings can also hit harder due to these hormonal shifts. For women with ADHD, these mood fluctuations can be two to three times more intense than what others might experience, making it even more crucial to have strategies tailored to these times of the month.

So, what does all this mean for you? Well, understanding how your cycle impacts your ADHD could be a game-changer in managing your symptoms more effectively. 👏Sometimes, you might need a little extra help or a different approach to your treatment to stay on top of your game. Whether it's tweaking your medication under a doctor's guidance or finding other coping strategies that align with your cycle, the key is personalized care that respects the unique patterns of your body.

So, next time you feel your symptoms flaring up, take a moment to consider where you are in your cycle. It might just help you find better ways to tackle those tough days and keep moving forward! 

For more tailored strategies on managing ADHD throughout your cycle, check out our article, 'In Sync: Managing ADHD Across The Menstrual Cycle,' where we delve deeper into effective ways to align your treatment with your body's rhythms.

Women With ADHD Are More Likely To Experience PMDD


PMDD brings intense emotional, physical, and behavioral symptoms during the late luteal phase of the cycle, right before menstruation begins. Unlike the more common PMS, which many women experience with milder symptoms, PMDD is a whole different ball game with symptoms that can significantly disrupt every area of daily life.

Imagine experiencing severe mood swings, irritability, and feelings of depression and anxiety that go way beyond your 'time of the month' headspace. Physically, it can mean bloating, breast tenderness, headaches, and aches in your joints or muscles. But it doesn't stop there - PMDD can also make you feel exhausted, mess with your sleep, and even change your eating habits. 🫠

Infographic explaining Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) with a calendar showing the start of a period and a worried woman. Text reads: 'Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) is a severe form of PMS that can cause emotional and physical symptoms during the days before a period.' Woman says, 'Oh no, not again.'

But why is it more common in women with ADHD? Research shows that women with ADHD often face higher levels of stress in daily life and have significant mood fluctuations, especially during the critical phase of their cycle. These mood shifts come with increased negativity and rumination, and research reporting changes in cortisol patterns suggest a dysregulation in how the body responds to stress.

Women with PMDD have a much higher risk of thinking about or attempting suicide, too, and are almost seven times more likely to attempt suicide and nearly four times more likely to have suicidal thoughts than women without PMDD.

Infographic explaining the difference between PMDD and PMS with a pie chart. Text reads: 'While PMDD shares symptoms with premenstrual syndrome (PMS), PMDD is less common and more severe.' 'PMS may occur in up to 48% of people who menstruate, while PMDD only occurs in 3 to 9%.'

In a recent study, about 45.5% of women with ADHD reported experiencing PMDD - significantly higher than the general population rate of 28.7%. This statistic shines a light on the need for heightened awareness and tailored support for women with ADHD, especially considering their vulnerability to severe mood changes across different hormonal phases.

Understanding PMDD in the context of ADHD is crucial for managing symptoms and safeguarding mental health. If you or someone you know is struggling, don't hesitate to seek professional help. You're not alone; the right help and self-awareness of symptoms can make a big difference. 🥰

For more insights and strategies, check out our article, 'The Impact of Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder on People with ADHD,' where we explore how to manage this complex condition alongside ADHD.

Menopause Can Lead To A Resurgence Or Worsening Of ADHD Symptoms


Many women in their 40s and 50s notice not just physical changes but also shifts in cognitive function as they approach menopause. This life stage can intensify ADHD symptoms, sometimes leading to heightened challenges like memory lapses, brain fog, and feelings of being overwhelmed. 🤯

Research reveals that around 61% of women aged 46 and older find ADHD impacts their lives most between the ages of 40-59, particularly during the perimenopausal and menopausal periods. These changes suggest that hormonal fluctuations might exacerbate ADHD symptoms, with some women experiencing pronounced issues or even receiving their initial diagnosis during this time. 😲

Additionally, the hormonal shifts during menopause could overlap with ADHD symptoms, meaning treatments like psychostimulants might not only manage ADHD but also help with some menopausal cognitive impairments. Systematic reviews emphasize the need for tailored treatment approaches during menopause, highlighting the critical intersection between hormonal changes and ADHD symptom management.

Navigating menopause with ADHD can add complexity to a phase of life that many hope would be calmer than the bustling younger years. However, understanding how these changes impact your ADHD is crucial for managing them more effectively. 

If you're struggling to manage ADHD during perimenopause or menopause, it's wise to talk to a mental health professional who can customize advice to fit your needs. Remember, you're not in this alone - getting the proper support can really help you handle this transition more confidently and keep your wellbeing on track. 💪

Key Takeaways

  • Women with ADHD tend to receive an ADHD diagnosis later in life because their symptoms tend to be less obvious compared to men and are often mistaken for stress or emotional issues. However, missed diagnoses can lead to missed opportunities and unnecessary trauma.
  • Women with ADHD often face extra challenges beyond typical ADHD symptoms, including a higher likelihood of experiencing comorbid conditions like anxiety, depression, eating disorders, and substance abuse, making diagnosis and treatment more complex. A holistic approach that addresses all these overlapping conditions can significantly improve their health and quality of life, ensuring the most accurate diagnosis and effective care.
  • ADHD symptoms can escalate during pregnancy, and balancing the benefits of medication with potential risks to the baby requires careful monitoring and personalized medical advice, addressing both physical symptoms and mental health needs.
  • Managing ADHD while navigating motherhood can be particularly challenging due to the added stress and need for time management, especially for adult women dealing with the complexities of undiagnosed ADHD.
  • Hormonal changes throughout the reproductive cycle can significantly exacerbate ADHD symptoms, especially premenstrual, affecting both inattention symptoms and hyperactive symptoms.
  • Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder (PMDD) is more common in women with ADHD, leading to severe psychological distress  and physical symptoms. With this in mind, understanding and managing PMDD in the context of ADHD is crucial for mental health and to reduce the increased risk of self-harm and suicide.
  • Hormonal changes during menopause can intensify ADHD symptoms, causing memory lapses and brain fog for women. Tailored treatment approaches are necessary to manage the intersection of menopause and ADHD symptoms effectively, emphasizing the need for early intervention and ongoing support.

Being a woman can be tough, and adding ADHD into the mix can make things feel even more chaotic and overwhelming. But remember, knowledge is power. With self-awareness, determination, an understanding of gender differences and the right support, we can thrive and lead fulfilling lives as women with ADHD. 👏

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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

What are signs of ADHD in females?

ADHD in women often manifests through predominantly inattentive symptoms, such as difficulty maintaining focus, trouble listening, and poor time management. Women may also experience psychological distress and low self-esteem and can struggle with maintaining organization in everyday life.

What does undiagnosed ADHD look like in women?

Undiagnosed ADHD in adult women can appear as chronic stress and disorganization and may mimic or coincide with other mental disorders such as anxiety or depression. It might also lead to negative consequences in personal and professional relationships due to difficulties managing life's demands.

What are the hidden struggles of a woman with ADHD?

The hidden struggles of women with ADHD include battling constant internal criticisms, feeling overwhelmed by daily tasks, and managing emotional hypersensitivity. These struggles are often compounded by societal expectations and gender bias, making them less visible and frequently misunderstood.

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